Positivity in Life

Oh dear oh dear

Every time I will give gifts or share anything, I will see to it that it’s not that cheap. If it’s on sale, I want to make sure that it’s a quality item. There is nothing wrong to give free items or sale items for as long as it’s made with quality and it will be of use to other people. What is important is the love that is behind of you giving it away to your friends and relatives. Whenever I give gifts, it is always from the bottom of my heart.

Whenever I will buy something or pay something I will not say I am paying and buying this and that. I am just paying it the way I can even if I sacrifice and suffer whenever I am using my credit cards. Even if I sacrifice of me not having enough sleep for me to work and earn cents to few dollars.

Oh Lord please bless me with more so that I can give more using cash and not credit. As of now, I am doing my best to help people out, but I am sacrificing myself and using my own credit. But I am paying my credit alone, and I am relying on the blessings that you will give me every month. Oh dear God, please rescue me.

You don’t have to explain, God knows what you’re doing

YOU DON’T need to explain yourself to others. They don’t own you coz God owns you. In the end, you don’t need to explain your life to people, you have to explain yourself in front of God. And so when people think that you are not helping them or you just have a little help, just don’t mind them. God knows what you are doing. Just think positive all the time so that God will give blessings in your life every day. You have done your part already, and God knows it. You will get your rewards in due time. Just hang on tight and keep your faith. Believe in God that he will do miracles in your life so that you will be blessed with more and so that you can be more blessings to other people (in God’s perfect time).

Commit yourself and trust him

Commit everything you do to the Lord
Trust Him, and he will help you.

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Believe in yourself, be positive, and have FAITH in GOD always


YES, you are! Always remember that! God believes in you. You should believe in yourself. Past decisions don’t predict your future. Keep on moving forward. You still have purpose here on earth to serve others. Keep on being positive that is your great weapon for progress in life. Everything is okay and will be okay with God’s guidance and provision. God heals your life! Believe in him. He is bringing the right people to help you out. Life is good, and it is on your side always. You just got to have faith every day and always. BE POSITIVE!

Pad Thai @ Thai Mint Restaurant

This is Pad Thai, and it’s yummy. It’s a different taste from the other noodle restos. When my friend Mu said that she will treat me to a free meal, I easily said yes because it’s free and it’s a blessing. She asked me if I knew Thai Mint Restaurant (Briargate Colorado Springs) I said to her that I wasn’t familiar coz I seldom dine out in a resto. So I just met her in the church since she wanted to get a holy water. After church, I just followed her driving to that restaurant. Then we met our other friend She in there. So, She and I ordered plates of this Pad Thai while Mu ordered the green curry since it’s her fave. After that, we went home separately. I was thankful for my friend Mu for the free treat, and She for joining us. It was a happy day indeed.

It’s going to be your choice

In life, everything is a choice. Whether you like it or not, you have to choose. There are two choices you need to do – to be POSITIVE or to be NEGATIVE. You have to choose the best that suits your life. If you feel that you are okay with negativity and that your life will progress with it, then, chose to be negative every day and drag people with your choice.

BUT IF YOU FEEL THAT you will help yourself and others with you being the most POSITIVE person, then do it and make your life and your surroundings the most POSITIVE ONE. IT’S YOUR CHOICE! What will your choice be?

Incredibly happy people’s habit (inspired by Travis Bradberry’s article)

According to Travis Bradberry (writer of forbes.com), these 10 lists of things are the habits of ‘incredibly happy people. He wrote this post – http://www3.forbes.com/leadership/10-habits-of-incredibly-happy-people/2/, and I can say that yes some are true coz I’ve done it in my life.

Here are the lists:
They slow down to appreciate life’s little pleasures
They exercise
They spend money on other people
They surround themselves with the right people
They stay positive
They get enough sleep
They have deep conversations
They help others
They make an effort to be happy.
They have a growth mindset.

As for me, it’s nice to be slow sometimes and just appreciate life. Besides, life always starts with step one, right?

Oh exercise, I do love to exercise even just on my stepper as I don’t have the budget for joining any gym. It’s like exercising at home coz I find it cheaper and more savings.

I’d love to spend time with my family and my kids. I am an Asian and I have a close family bonding that even if parents and children are old, there’s still be bonding. So, I love to bond with my families and sometimes with good friends. Pssst, I hate to bond with negative people. They drained my spirit and my energy out. Really!

In staying positive, I am doing that ever since 2010. I love to read good books from Andrew Matthews, Leo Buscaglia, Bible, and more. Last 2010 I learned about Louise L. Hay, the Secret the Movie, and other good sources for self-help thingy and from there I started to be positive in life. When times that I will be negative, well, I will have to rant positive things and with prayers as well. This helps me continue living life right now. No matter what I’ve been through in life, I will still be ranting and praying positive things even if the things in front of me is negative. I am grateful for the answers to my prayers even if I cannot see it yet. I do believe that God answers prayers and even more. I am excited to receive the blessings that He has for my families and for me.

Oh, that get enough sleep, I sometimes sleep early. But really last night, I sleep earlier than 2am or 3am and so I am feeling better today. I was just exhausted, and I cannot open my eyes facing my computer. I cannot type at all, and so I slept earlier than my usual sleeping time.

Deep conversation huh – well, I do have a deep conversation with God in my prayers. He knows my mind and my heart. Sometimes, I have a deep conversation with my pen and papers, but mostly, I’ll just have to shred it. I feel relieved whenever I can write the things that bother me. You know, it’s one of my stress relievers – WRITING. I love talking to God as well. Even if I cannot hear Him replied to me like person to person conversation, but I can see his positive replies in my life. Whenever I am praying, I feel better, and I feel more positive in life.

That helping others – I always do. I love giving gifts. I believe that I am a steward of God’s wealth here on earth and so I am sharing it. I also believe that the more I help, the more blessings I will receive in life. God is the unfailing source, and so I am INDEPENDENT OF HIM so that I can share and help other people more.

That making EFFORT TO BE HAPPY, hmmm that is the right thing to do in life. I can remember I have a distant relative, I call her Lola (Grandmother), and she’s blind, but she’s the happiest person I’ve known. There’s no dull moment whenever I am talking to her. She can laugh her heart out loud with just any conversations. She’s trying to make herself happy and the people around her. Happiness is a choice, and so hmmm I need to be happy as well. Life is good, and life is abundant because God is life. So, happiness should be a choice every day by guarding the things that you put in your mind because those things that you constantly think about, you will imprint it in your heart. And so it’s good to just be happy by thinking positive things coz it the heart will be more positive and will be happier.

Oh, that growth mindset – surely positive people always think of growth and pretty sure they filtered their minds with not over think of the things in the past. Instead of focusing on the past, they focus on the present, and they’re happier with their families. Whenever they have families, they usually bring their families out sometimes to be happy with nature or whatever beautiful places that they can think. Mostly, they are not happy with just playing computer games, watching TV or whatever indoor activities. They are the happiest when they can orient their families with whatever positive activities that they can introduce. They are not anti-social as well. They love people because they know that no man can live alone. Everyone needs someone, and everyone needs friendship – whether it be a church, close friends or from any other communities. They love to volunteer in helping others like in charities, feeding needy people and the like.

Share your blessings to Johnny who helped Miss Kate McClure

There are still thousands of people who love to help those persons in need. It says that the more you give, the more you will receive back. And with this homeless man named Johnny (he is a veteran) who helped Miss Kate McClure to have gasoline in her car received back even more. Mss Kate stated in the ‘gofund campaign’ – Using his last 20 dollars to make sure I could get home safe is so touching!

For those who want to give or share their blessings with this man live a better life, please do so at the gofund link – https://www.gofundme.com/hvv4r-paying-it-forward. As of the moment 11/23/2017 at 12:56pm he has this blessings in the gofund. Thanks God for all who shared their blessings for this kind man who need help to have a better life.

Reward system in potty training

Doing potty training is such a challenging work for a full time stay at home mother. As per my experience with kid, he is already potty trained. He can pee on his own by visting the bathroom anytime he wants to. He also says that pull up diapers is yucky to wear. But there is one more thing that he needs to do and that is to poop whenever he needs to. He doesn’t like pooping for the reason that it’s icky and yucky (according to him). He also says that he is scared of pooping and he doesn’t like it. So, I told him that even if he doesn’t like it but he needs to do it because it cleans up his body from the revolting poop. So, to help him do his thing, I need to give him rewards because if I will just leave him alone in going from one corner to another in trying to hold his poop, it will reach him days before he will let go of it. What I will usually trick him is I will give him some nice band aid like Dora band aid that he calls it as his sticker. Though sometimes if he is not being rewarded with candies before doing his bathroom work, I will also reward him with two packs of candies!

All in all, I am so thankful that he is already a potty trained kid. And hope he will not hold his p** anymore. Hope he will go whenever he needs to p** in the bathroom without saying he doesn’t like it.

Fixing my locked iPad

I hate downloading iTunes on my pc, but I don’t have any choice but to have it. I need to fix my iPad because it is locked by my daughter during her sleepover at my friend’s house. After trying to fix it for several hours, my pad right now functioning a-okay.


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