Pink – the color that I’ve hated since childhood. The reason for that was I always dressed up pink colored dress when I was a kid. I wanted to wear different colors, like blue, red, yellow and other colors but I always got to have pink dress. I also wanted to wear jeans of different colors but I didn’t have the chance to wear one. I hated those days and that’s the reason why I hated the pink color.
I just learned to love pink color when I became a mother and had my youngest daughter in my tummy. Those 9 months taught me about the beauty of pink. It taught me to be brave coz pink color is a color of bravery. Why? It’s because it’s just females who can gave birth to babies, be it normal delivery or via CS. During my 9 months of pregnancy, I love to wear dress, pink dress and everything but pink and shades of pink.
Before my ultrasound, I knew I am having a baby girl for I just love to be a girl and act like a feminine in which it’s opposite to my personality as I grew up to be tough and act like boyish (opps am not a lesbian though). I just wanted to act like I am tough and I like to show that I am not weak and I can lift heavy loads. If men can lift heavy loads, then, I can do it too, of course for my family.
Anyway, going back to the pink, yes, that’s all I learned. Pink is a tough color and a color of bravery. For people who love pink, don’t think that it is a color of weakness. You are wrong. It’s the toughest color of all coz it represents femininity.
And for me, being feminine is not being weak, like it is not weak than masculine. Being feminine is more masculine that being a man. Why? It’s because you are a tough mother and you can endure all the pain just to give life to the best gift from God – your child.
You can endure all the hardships in life and that’s why you are called feminine because you are unique and you are tough. You are tougher than any gender there is. God made you tough.
God made us tough because we can endure any pains and all. Pink symbolizes femininity because there’s beauty in it but despite of the beauty, there is bravery that’s hiding behind it. So, be proud that you are a FEMALE and love your gender.
For guys who can wear pink, it’s a sign that they are tough than being a masculine. Pink is not just a color for females as it is also available for tough males. So, wear pink if you are tough!